The Introduction to "The Black College Independent Conservative" - The Perspective of a Son of A Single Mother

As I spoke on the last post, I am a product of a single mother. Since then, I suffered (still am) so many negative affects and consequences due to being born of a single mother. Mostly, it was financially. You will be surprised of the friends I have that have fathers in their life, and you know what? I understand.

There has been tremendous amounts of studies showing the correlation between single motherhood and the result of children being born to single mothers. Children (mostly boys) that are born to single mothers are more prone to juvenile delinquency, having the inability to compete economically, and more likely to either drop out of school or not continuing to post-secondary education or vocational training. I completely agree with these studies. Why? When I came to Champaign in 2010, I have seen lots of children with both mothers and fathers. They loved their children so dearly, valued and cared for their education, which causes the children to do well in school. The kids with no fathers or even no father figure tend to do poorly in school, have confrontations with other students, teachers and administrators. Although I even had problems similar (mostly in middle school), I eventually grew out of the immaturity to be ready for high school and pursue post-secondary education.

On children that have parents, the children are very respectable. They didn't have nasty attitudes, they didn't show that they didn't care for education, they had a excellent grasp of standard American English. I could keep going on and on. Every day, when I walked into Central (the high school I went to in Champaign) and I see most kids that are like this, I wonder where does this come from. When I eventually meet their parents, I got my answer then. Most of these children have loving parents that love their children very much. The parents are usually nice and they most likely got married BEFORE having their children. Why does all this matter? Children need a mother and a father to nurture, protect, provide, and love them. The main important thing is that the mother and father should be MARRIED! In order to build the traditional nuclear family household, both mates need to be married. Single mothers cannot do that, especially when it comes to boys. Boys born into dominant matriarchal parent household are more likely to not be able to control their emotions, which becomes more difficult to date them, will have low-self esteem and lack of confidence, and will become more provocative (I know, I've done it) and will take things way seriously (I still do that at times) in certain situations.

That's why I believe because I was born to single motherhood, I don't think I would be the right type of guy to date and marry. I think it would be better if I just stay single. Fathers don't have worry about me dating and marrying their daughter. I think I don't have to be emotional around a girl that probably didn't me anyway, just to feel sorry for me.

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